Learning how depression works is the key to overcoming it and I would also personally recommend gentle hypnotic relaxation as a powerful addition and for faster results.
Depression sucks the energy right out of you making it difficult to function. Although it may not appear easy, it is possible to overcome depression and rid yourself of it completely through mastering a set of self-help tools.
My own life was plagued with bouts of debilitating depression for twelve years. It need not take that long however to come out of it because there is greater understanding of the psychology of depression these days and effective strategies for dealing with it.
It was because of this experience that I turned to hypnosis and later qualified as a hypnotherapist so that I could help others with this and other emotional issues. I have had no depressive episodes for the past 10 years.
In this article I will provide you with 7 steps that will help you start the process towards feeling better.
Whether you are a sufferer or whether you are a spouse, friend, relative or carer you will find that understanding depression, the physiological and psychological impact, will go a long way to treating it.
Depression is actually a sign that your brain is working too hard, which causes stress hormones to elevate preventing proper rest and relaxation. This is why a depressed person will feel exhausted most of the time. To counteract this you need to relax and give your mind a break.
It may seem odd to suggest relaxation when you are feeling so lethargic and exhausted yet hypnosis offers an effective tool that relaxes an overly stressed mind.
Although you feel exhausted when depressed, exercise is a useful ally. Studies have proven that the effects of depression can be successfully reduced by regular physical activity.
Mood elevating endorphins are released when you maintain a healthy level of physical activity and it increases serotonin production, often lacking in depressed people. Therefore, if you incorporate exercise into your life as a daily activity you are sure to notice a drastic and positive change in your overall mood. Even walking, preferably briskly, for 20 minutes will be beneficial.
If you’re troubled by depression take a look at your dietary intake as this will greatly impact your well being. Do your best to stay away from sugar. Even the “healthy” natural sugars found in fruit or honey need to be eaten moderately.
These sugars are incorporated into the bloodstream at a quicker rate than carbohydrates from foods such as whole grains. Sugar will give you a ‘lift’ of energy for a little while but then the sugar falls away quickly leaving you feeling more tired. What’s more you will then crave more sugar thus repeating the sugar high, sugar crash cycle.
It is important to venture outside and soak up some sun each day. Even if the sun isn’t shining brightly, the daylight will be just as beneficial. Experts agree that sunlight can be a constructive component to treating depression.
Be aware it may take time to notice improvements and after a week or two of daily short walks, or longer ones if you can manage it, will add up over time and you will begin to look forward to get your daily dose of fresh air and sunlight.
Overwhelm is a common trait of depression. The mind is hyper-active and trying to do or work everything out all at once.
It’s important therefore to divide daily tasks into manageable ones and only do what is absolutely necessary.
Making small changes to your life one step at a time is the answer. Avoid expecting that you ‘should’ be able to do more or be more to yourself or anyone else.
Whenever you hear yourself (or someone else) say “I should…” change the “I should” to “I could” – it gives you a sense of choice and flexibility instead of pressure.
In other words, give yourself a break and do not be so hard on yourself!
Everyone has certain ‘primal’ needs in life that when met allow you to feel content and emotionally satisfied. Our most basic needs are for shelter, food and water (feeling safe and secure) yet there other needs of importance too. Have a read through this list to see if you feel an imbalance anywhere in your life right now.
The good news is that even if you do feel lacking in some areas of your life, they can be addressed. Most people do this unconsciously and in some instances one particular need may be sought when in fact it is another that is needed! For example we may be seeking to learn something new when what we really need is companionship.
First and foremost, be easy on yourself. One of the most challenging aspects can be your thinking, which lies at the root of depression. Habitual thinking styles are often picked up from people we have shared our life with. (There’s no point blaming them for that by the way!) Society too seems to home in on what’s wrong instead of what is right in this world, have you noticed that?
Instead of continuing with negative behaviours do your best to change them into more positive ones. For example, if a situation upsets you realise that self-blame and succumbing to negative thinking is not the answer. There are many ways to view a situation and quite often we make an assumption about a situation from a flawed perspective!
A trait of a depressed person is to engage in all-or-nothing thinking. You can notice this by hearing whether you or they use words such as, “Always” or “Never”, when in fact there is a middle ground for most situations.
If you live with someone who is depressed and you notice this all-or-nothing thinking, gently encourage them to see other perspectives.
If you need help with depression my advice would be to seek expert help, initially from your own GP or health provider.
When I was seeking information about Depression and how I could help my clients I came across the Hypnosis Recovery Program and later qualified in helping anyone overcome depression based on this program.
You probably have some questions about depression and in particular related to your specific situation. It can seem a confusing time not only for the sufferer but for those people helping their loved ones with this condition. When I suffered with depression the most difficult aspect was being unable to shift my mood to a lighter one. If you or someone you know suffers from depression, what do you find is the most challenging aspect to deal with?